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Wednesday, November 18th, 2009
 Going the Extra Mile
I came across this video clip recently on YouTube, and I love it. I don’t know who made it or promotes it, but - as always here at LifePotential - I’m happy to pass on anything I feel will help us develop ourselves to the fullest. Our behaviour is often influenced by little things we see or hear. See what you think of this.
This is really about going the extra mile, doing that bit more, providing that extra special service. I read an article in the Irish Times last week about a woman who is opening an old fashioned Tea Shop in Co. Cork. Her research included a trip to afternoon tea at the Ritz in London. She said it cost her £42 per person, but that it was worth every penny of it. Now - do the Ritz serve better tea than anywhere else? I doubt it. Do they make better cakes/scones than a home-baker from Cork? Most unlikely. So why did she feel it was worth it?
She said that the welcome, the service (they had a waiter dedicated to their table), the crisp white linen cloths & napkins, the smiles, the “nothing-is-too-much-trouble” attitude made it worthwhile. She decided that that atmosphere was what she wanted to replicate in her tea shop. She bought proper china cups (from charity shops) rather than mugs. Her daughter decorates each cupcake individually by hand. She makes the tea in old fashioned china pots with knitted tea-cosy, on to keep it warm. All in all, she is bringing the care and attention to detail of her Ritz experience, to her own tea shop.
I found it a warming read, just to see someone going that extra mile to provide a luxury service to her customers. And she’s not getting 42 pounds a go for it. But I hope that she is getting loyal and happy customers. People know what they like: - they like to be welcomed, treated well, fed good food in good company and to leave with a smile on their face.
There are always areas in our daily lives where we have the chance to do a little bit extra for someone, to give a little more, to try a little harder, to be more pleasant in an exchange (smiling costs nothing as we’ve proven before!), to be more welcoming, to offer to help, to spend 5 minutes with someone who needs company. There are as many opportunities as there are moments in the day. Try some for yourself. Tweet me how you get on. You can start right now. If you’ve ever thought how someone you know would like to read these blogs or tweets, forward this to them right away. Job done. It might give someone a little lift.
Tags: Attitudes, Feelgood Tasks, Smiling Posted in Beliefs & Values, Feelgood Tasks, Human Behaviour | 2 Comments »
Wednesday, November 11th, 2009
- Laugh out loud! Make a note of five things that make you laugh out loud. For me that would include: Laurel & Hardy movies; Tom & Jerry cartoons; Bob Newhart video clips (see below) and comedian Dara O’Briain. Be sure to laugh heartily for a good 10-15 minutes. You should be breathless from laughing.
- List at least 10 things you have to be grateful for right now, today, this minute. I always start with thanks for my family and friends, my health, good weather (which cheers me up) etc. As you write them, focus your thoughts on that person or thing that you are so grateful for, it really brightens your day.
- Finally, pass on your good feeling to someone else. If you’re in the office, smile at colleagues and give them a word of appreciation, affirmation or positive feedback. If you’re at home, arrange to have a chat with someone who always makes you feel good (in person, by phone, online, wherever). Do your best to ensure that, by the end of your interaction, you are both feeling better for it.
That’s it. You probably have lots of other ways to improve your mood, but the important thing is to take immediate action. Don’t let the mood keep sinking. Grab it by the lapels and bring it up into the sunshine!
By the way, if anyone has the Bob Newhart Driving Instructor video/sound clip, I’d love a copy. It cracks me up!
Tags: Gratitude, Humour, Mood, Motivation Posted in Feelgood Tasks, Humour, Motivation | No Comments »
Tuesday, November 10th, 2009
I came across this clip today, and I really like it. I would put it in under my “ Feelgood Tasks” because I think it relates to a whole change of behaviour, which will bring long term benefits to your self and others.
Let me know what you think. I haven’t heard of this group before, so I’m promoting them. I just like the clip. I like what it says. It’s positive, affirming, motivational and it gets us out of ourselves and our own little world and gets us to focus on how we interact with others. Hopefully we can make that interaction a positive one.
Tags: Affirmations, Behaviour, Change, Motivation Posted in Feelgood Tasks, Human Behaviour, Motivation | 2 Comments »
Thursday, November 5th, 2009
Is it still self development if no one knows? Sounds a bit Zen-like, doesn’t it? Like - “If a tree falls in the forest and there’s no one there to hear it, does it make a sound?” If you’re working on your self development without telling anyone - will they notice?
Thing is - I think - once you are practising self-development sincerely, it won’t be possible for no one to know! If you are developing, of course people are going to know. On yesterdays teleseminar with Jack Canfield (Chicken Soup books, Success Principles etc.) his “homework” to us for the coming month is to do one simple thing, just choose one, and so it every day for the next 30 days, and see what the result.
Obviously he means do something good and positive for yourself and/or others. For instance he has committed to getting a full 8 hours sleep every night, come what may, for the 30 days. Other suggestions might be:
- Show gratitude (verbally, e-mail, SMS etc.) to 10 people every day for 30 days
- Phone someone you’ve lost touch with, or have been meaning to phone (just one person a day) for 30 days
- Tell someone you love - that you love them. This is an obvious and easy one, but I know that lots of us assume that people know we love them. TELL them so, for 30 days
- Congratulate/appreciate yourself in some way. Sometimes just pausing and telling ourselves we are worthwhile is enough. Treat yourself to a short walk in the fresh air, a chat with a friend, a 5-minute lie on in bed. Just pick something that means something to you. It doesn’t have to cost anything. It doesn’t have to take long.
Now - back to my original theme. Do you think that, if you were to implement any one of these for 30 days, there would be no noticeable difference in you? Would people notice a change in your behaviour? Might you appear more relaxed if you had had a month of appreciating yourself, your friends, your work colleagues, getting enough rest, any of these things?
I’m betting that everyone close to you, and probably people who didn’t even know you that well, would see a change in your attitude. Because that’s where it would show. You can’t remain lacking in confidence if you are telling yourself every day that you’re worthwhile, and showing that appreciation of yourself in some way. You’ll be seen as the chirpiest person in the office if you’re constantly thanking colleagues when appropriate. And just how much will relationships with all your loved ones improve, if you tell them that you love them, everyday for the next 30 days.
I’m not claiming credit for Jack Canfield’s suggestion, but I do think that it perfectly illustrates what I’ve been getting at here today. I believe that when you embark on any element of self-development, no matter how small an act it might be, the ripple effect can be very powerful.
Tags: Change, Confidence, Friends, Human Behaviour Posted in Feelgood Tasks, Human Behaviour, Self Development | 2 Comments »
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